Dotty’s Breakthrough Moment

Dotty, an 8-month-old white golden retriever, picks up a cellphone case from a multicolored rugDotty has been working on her retrieve. It’s an important job for service dogs who assist people who use wheelchairs or have poor balance. The dog can pick up items the person has dropped or that are difficult to reach. Ideally, the dog brings the item to the person’s hand or maybe to a tray attached to the wheelchair.

Dotty has had limited enthusiasm for this task, though she’s slowly getting more attentive. She drops things a lot, and often loses interest before getting the item to my hand.

Recently, I started asking her to carry things up or down the stairs. The idea was to get her to hold the items for a longer time. It has been working well, though getting her to carry an item into the office and hand it to me is still dicey. I wasn’t sure how much she understood of what I wanted her to do.

Until recently.

8-month-old Dotty, a white golden retriever, carries a cellphone case. Her left ear flies out to the side as she turns.I was on a zoom call with my boss, and I was writing something down. I moved the pad or the mouse or something and the pen flew off the table and landed on the floor behind my chair.

As I looked for it, I noticed Dotty eyeing the pen, then looking at me. I whispered encouragement, and she … performed a miracle.

Dotty came over, picked up the pen, and placed it into my hand.

!!!

A major breakthrough.

I gave her several treats and whispered praise. The meeting continued.

Though I have asked her to pick up things I have dropped many times, I was far from thinking she had understood and bought into the goal — moving the “pick up dropped item” behavior to an almost automatic behavior. In fact, I was wondering whether she would ever get there.

Doing it once does not mean that she will ever do it again, of course. But I think she’s beginning to understand that I want her to pick things up and that I am weirdly excited and happy when she does. And that she gets paid pretty well in delicious cookies.

It’s great progress.

Hangin’ at the Mall

Dotty, a 7-month-old white golden retriever, wears a blue service dog-in-training vestThe brief glimpse of snow is long gone, but the weather has been cold, gray, and often wet. Dotty is hoping to spend more time at the mall.

We’ve visited lots of places that regular dogs are not allowed to go. Besides the mall, Dotty has been to numerous local cafes and bakeries, the airport, some shops and banks, and a grocery store.

It turns out that wheeled carts make her very nervous. She’s not crazy about automatic doors, either, or those weird freezers in the supermarket. But the carts really get to her.

The solution turns out to be hanging out at the mall. Every teenager’s dream. (Well, it was when I was a teenager …)

The point is literally to hang out and watch the world go by. People. Wheelchairs. Children running and jumping and screaming. Those all-terrain, 2-kid strollers that are bigger than some cars. Normal strollers too. Kids riding 3-foot-tall motorized stuffed animals.

And the smells — from the two pretzel shops to the Cinnabon to the stinky bath products stores… the smells are overwhelming to me, and I know that Dotty’s nose is thousands of times more sensitive.

Dotty, a 7-month-old white golden retriever, watches passersby, wearing a blue service dog0in-training vestDotty just watches. Sometimes, something surprises her and she gets up to take a closer look. But we hang out out of the stream of shoppers and mall walkers, just watching.

We also wandered a bit, past the video game arcade and the photo booth and the electronic “rides” for small children. Past the larger-than-life wooden forest ranger (she was not too keen on him) and the massage chairs. She checked out the shoeshine station pretty thoroughly.

This kind of watching and wandering can, of course, be done outdoors as well. But, as the weather turns wintry, sitting in parks has lost its appeal. (We did a fair bit of that over the summer, but clearly not enough.)

The idea is to get her used to everything, and anything. So that she won’t be surprised by people, carts, or whatever else pops up when she’s out and about. It’s a kind of “desensitization” training that, I hope, will build up her confidence in preparation for when she, as service dogs do, goes into new places and experiences unexpected things.

Snow!

Young golden retrievers Orly and Dotty stand on grass covered with a light coat of snow
SNOW!

In late October, Dotty woke up one morning and went outside, as she usually does. It was still dark, and very cold. And there was some weird wettish cold stuff all over the ground.

It smelled wet and fresh.

When Dotty went back inside, some of the white stuff came in, too. So she ate it. It didn’t taste like much.

A little while later, Orly (who is not a morning dog) stumbled out of the bedroom. When she saw the white stuff, she got very excited.

Orly told Dotty that it was called SNOW!

SNOW! (always said with great excitement) is a super fun thing that happens in Montana oh, anywhere from 6 to 11 months of the year.

The two dogs went outside together and raced around in the snow, dug in the snow, kicked the snow, ate the snow, lay down in the snow, peed on the snow, and rolled in the snow.

Since there was only a very light dusting, they had to use their imaginations quite a bit.

After about 10 or 15 minutes, they realized that they were cold and hungry, so they went inside and had breakfast.

Orly promised Dotty that she’d see more — better, bigger, deeper — SNOW! soon.

 

Carnage Among the Carrots

Golden retriever Orly stands at a wire mesh gate, watching the sun set behind purple mountains
Dog sitting in paradise

We’re dog-sitting again.

Orly has my friends bamboozled into thinking that she’s “perfectly” behaved, even after spending 11 days with them while I was traveling.

They may need to reconsider.

We arrived yesterday afternoon, a gorgeous, sunny fall day. I was sitting on the deck reading and the dogs were playing. I looked up and noticed that Dotty was reclining in the garden box. Odd.

Finger-sized muddy partial carrotI ordered her out, and she came running over, and I didn’t think anything more about it. Until, several minutes later, Orly loped onto the deck and dropped something. Clunk. Then she started to eat the something, so I got up to investigate. A dirty carrot. Or rather, part of a carrot.

Carrots partially pulled from the dirt and dug up dirtI wandered back over to the garden box, and discovered that no, Dotty had not been innocently reclining in the garden.

She was actively committing mayhem.

I found a tarp in the garage and constructed a flimsy but effective barrier. All was well.

For a while.

This morning, I noticed both girls hiding out at the far end of the garden and moseyed over to investigate.

Dotty was again reclining. Turns out there’s a second carrot patch. Now there are two sites of carrot carnage and two dogs who have stuffed themselves on carrots. (Could be worse. Some dogs I know stalk and occasionally manage to catch and murder small animals. Perhaps vegetables-as-prey is the benefit of raising dogs in a vegetarian home?

Meanwhile, the two resident dogs are off playing in their yard, having, and wanting, nothing to do with the full-on assault on their parents’ garden. On the other hand, neither raised a paw to stop the carnage committed by their buddies.

Dotty was definitely the ringleader, but “perfect” Orly was a willing accomplice and eager eater of the spoils.

All Orly Wants for Her Birthday Is …

7-month old Dotty, a white golden retriever, sits next to 2-year-old Orly, a much smaller blonde golden

Orly will be two years old (!!) on Sunday, Oct 22. All she wants for her birthday — besides the traditional ice cream treat and the weekend she will spend playing with her best friends of course — is to be the big sister again.

I got back from my vacation and picked Orly up, then drove out to get Dotty back from her trainer, Glenn. Glenn brought out a small white pony, claiming it was Dotty.

He then showed off how nicely this behemoth walked at heel, did a sit stay, and politely sat to ask to go inside (no loud barking). Definitely not Dotty.

Tiny Dotty, a white golden retriever puppy, was much smaller than big sister Orly in May, when she arrived.The pony was wearing Dotty’s collar and had a bag of Dotty’s food, though, and she seemed very happy to see me, so I loaded her into the car. She seemed excited about being home and finding her toys, and happily  reunited with Orly.

But … Dotty is a puppy. This is a dog.

…Or not. By the next morning, the Dotty pony was in full puppy mode, twirling and bouncing along on our walk, stealing Orly’s toys, racing in circles in the back yard, and generally being Dotty.

One thing seems to have stuck from Dotty’s time with Glenn (thank goodness!): The newer, larger Dotty hasn’t demand barked at all since she got home!

The big puppy is here to stay (for a while, anyhow), and Orly is now the older sister but not the bigger sister. Harumph. It’s enough to make a girl go eat more ice cream.

Thinking Dog to Publish Biweekly

White golden retriever puppy Dotty lies on a blue sofa and looks straight at the cameraI’m going to try out a biweekly publishing schedule for a few months.

(By biweekly, I mean every two weeks, though I know that some people use biweekly to mean semiweekly or twice a week.)

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Late Summer

Golden retriever Orly noses among bright green raspberry leaves, sniffing out berriesSummer is winding down here in Missoula.

Orly and Dotty are practicing their berry-gathering skills: The transplanted raspberries (well, some of them) produced a minuscule late-summer crop. The girls gleefully discovered this bounty a few days ago and quickly demolished the handful of berries, mostly under-ripe. Patience and delayed gratification are not their strengths … Though persistence is. They check and recheck for new or missed berries several times a day. Several times an hour if I let them.

White golden retriever Dotty pokes her nose into deep green raspberry leavesWhen not searching for berries — and the occasional fallen apple from the neighbors’ tree — Dotty is energetically pouncing on every floating leaf and fallen stick, which makes her play time in the yard, and even more so, our walks … interesting.

I’m trying hard to break her habit of zooming off after each moving object and, of course, coming to a jarring hard stop at the end of the leash. Turns out that many dog trainers’ insistence that when dogs self-correct like that they learn not to bolt on the leash is hilarious … and wholly false, at least in Dotty’s case.

She does love to carry things in her mouth on our walks, which may be a useful skill in her service dog work. Especially if she’s partnered with someone who loves sticks and candy wrappers. (Or maybe I need to work on broadening Dotty’s interests.)

As the trees turn, I look at all those leaves and wonder whether Dotty would settle for mall walking for a few weeks. My arms just can’t take it!

I take comfort from the memory that Orly went through a similar distracted phase, pouncing on leaves and taking off in every direction while on leash; it wasn’t even very long ago. And she’s now a wonderful walking companion.

As Dotty leaps and pounces and twirls through fall, I try to savor this phase — even as I wish for it to end.

“Fair” Is a One-Way Street

White pup Dotty and blonde Orly, both golden retrievers, snuggle on a wood floorOrly and Dotty are both grappling with the inescapable truth that life is not fair.

Now that Dotty has her service-dog-in-training cape, I sometimes take her with me when I run errands or go out to eat. Orly stays home.

Not fair! Orly sulks and refuses to greet us when we return.

This morning it was even worse: Dotty got to go to the river and have her photo taken, a process which involves many treats. Orly again stayed home. Dotty came back happy and mud-covered, reeking of the good treats. NOT FAIR.

Orly got her own special walk afterward, while Dotty stayed home (in her crate with a chew toy). Orly seemed mollified after that and is again sweetly cuddling with her “little” sister (they are now the same size … a phenomenon that won’t last a full week before the little sister overtakes the big sister).

Oddly enough, though, Orly’s sense of fairness is unperturbed when Orly gets to go off hiking — and Dotty is the one left behind. Each time, Dotty rushes to greet the Missoula Dog Mom, hoping that today will be the day — she is sure it’s coming — that she gets to go. She wouldn’t even mind if Orly also went. She just wants to go!

Nope, not today. Orly swishes her tail grandly as she exits, leaving sad Dotty home with boring old Mom and her many meetings.

Dotty’s loud demands, more frequent while Orly is out — requests for food, attention, outside time, inside time, cuddles — may be a cry for justice. Her sense of fairness, like Orly’s, seems to mostly consist of a keen awareness of the times she’s on the receiving end of injustice.

And to give both girls their due, they treat each other fairly. They take turns “winning” tug games and wrestling matches and being the chaser vs. the chasee in the yard. They share toys, amicably chew beef bones next to one another, and let each other eat in peace. As I well know, that is not always the case, even with the most loving doggy siblings.

Perhaps calm acceptance of unequal treatment is a question of maturity, temperament, and time; it’s certainly the case that not all humans get there as children or teens ( … or ever).

All Claws & Teeth

Dotty and Orly sit side by side. Dotty is almost as tall as Orly

Dotty is going through a Phase. It might be adolescence. If it is, I hope it ends as quickly as it started.

She’s all claws and paws and teeth.

Everything goes into the mouth. Sticks, leaves, trash she finds on our walks … people’s hands if they reach out to pet her … toys, non-toys, food, non-food. Everything.

And she’s started pawing at people to ask for petting. Constantly.

And jump! Dotty had been doing SO well with her sit-to-be-petted greeting. She was such a sweet girl. But now? It’s like a different dog.

Orly went through a truly obnoxious phase on her way to being a Very Good Girl who rarely jumps (unless she’s trying to get onto the bed and your nose happens to be in the way …). I’m hoping that Dotty shows the same growth and maturity… soon.

During her “tween” and adolescent period Orly was hyper-aware of every moving leaf, blade of grass, bird or squirrel, and of course, human encountered on walks. Dotty is as well, but where Orly pounced and passed things by, Dotty stops and tries to pick up whatever catches her attention.

Both want to meet any and all humans and positively swoon over small children.

There are signs of growth already, though. Dotty willingly gets both into and out of the car, for example, and, just a couple days ago, I saw her go down the stairs without a single “bunny hop” of her two back legs together.

She’s tall and leggy, almost as tall as Orly, but her body still needs to lengthen and fill out before she stops looking puppyish. That moment will come soon. Maybe too soon!

 

No More Boxing Lessons …

4 large dogs wag their tails and put their heads together as they play

Orly has a mean center punch.

And a very hard head.

Let’s back up…

I was dog-sitting for two wonderful pups, one of whom insisted that he absolutely had to go out at 3 am. We all went out. Dogs did what dogs do, and we stood there for a few minutes marveling at the stars. I did, at least. My friends live well outside of Missoula and can actually see stars. It was a beautiful clear night, if a bit cold.

I was settling back into bed when Orly asked to come up for a cuddle. I leaned over to pet her and said she could come up. Usually, she needs to be told a few times and I need to move over and show her her spot, convincing her that I really want to cuddle with her.

Not this time.

I don’t think the word “yes” was out of my mouth before she leapt. Full speed ahead, just inches from my nose.

There was quite a bit of blood.

While I was dealing with that, Orly settled in on the bed — nice of me to warm it for her — and went to sleep. My friends’ dogs settled on their beds and returned to sleep as well. Only sweet Dotty came to check on me and keep me company while I iced my nose.

Orly doesn’t actually take boxing lessons. Turns out she does not need them, either. And I’m pondering the benefits of a dogless bed …